Njira 5 Zopewa Dama Monga Osakwatira

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Lero tidzakhala tikuphunzitsa njira zisanu zopewa dama ngati osakwatira. Dama ndilo kugonana pakati pa anthu omwe sanakwatirane mwalamulo. Pamene mwamuna wosakwatira ndi mkazi yemwe sanakwatire nawonso agwirizana kuti achite zogonana, ndiye kuti dama. Ukwati ndichinthu choyenera kulemekezedwa ndipo zonse zomwe zikuyenera kuchitika m'banja ziyenera kukhala zolemekezeka. Bukhu la Ahebri 13: 4 amafotokozeranso kuti Ukwatiwo ndiwolemekezeka pakati pa onse, komanso kamawo ndi wosadetsedwa; koma adama ndi achigololo adzawaweruza Mulungu.

Mulungu amanyansidwa ndi chiwerewere, pang'ono Iye adatichenjeza za chiwerewere m'malemba pamene adapereka malamulo khumi kwa Mneneri Mose. Kumbukirani kuti lembo likuti thupi lathu ndi kachisi wa Ambuye choncho tiyenera kuyesetsa kuti likhale loyera. Lemba limafotokozanso zamatsenga za chiwerewere. M'buku la 1 Akorinto 6:18 Thawani chiwerewere. Tchimo lililonse lomwe munthu amachita kunja kwa thupi, koma amene wachita chiwerewere achimwira thupi lake. Tikamachita chiwerewere, sitimachimwira Mulungu, timanyoza kama ndikulakwira thupi lathu. Chimodzi mwazotsatira zoyipa za izi ndikuti chimachepetsa mzimu wa Mulungu m'moyo wamunthu.

Zotsatira Zoipa Zachiwerewereation


Pali zotsatira zoyipa zambiri za dama. Zina mwazofala kwambiri ndi izi:

Imagonjetsa Mzimu Wa Mulungu Mwa Munthu
Mzimu wa Mulungu ndi chisomo cha Mulungu kwa munthu aliyense. Ndipo kumbukirani kuti lemba likuti tipitilize kukhala mumachimo ndikufunsa kuti chisomo chikuchuluka? Thupi la munthu limakhala ndi mzimu wa Mulungu. Chiwerewere chikakhala chofala masiku onse, mzimu wa Mulungu umayamba kuchoka pang'onopang'ono ndipo nthawi ikubwera pomwe munthu wotero sadzakhalanso ndi gawo limodzi la mzimu.

Zimatenga Kukhalapo kwa Mulungu Kutali
Mwamuna akachita tchimo lakugonana, mzimu wakupezeka kwa Mulungu umachoka kwa munthu woteroyo. Pakadali pano, kukhalapo kwathu konse monga anthu kuti tikhale ndi koinonia ndi Mulungu. Chimodzi mwa zinthu zomwe zingawononge ubalewo ndi tchimo. Pamene munthu achimwa kwambiri, mzimu wa Mulungu umapita kutali ndi iye.

Zimalepheretsa Kukwaniritsidwa Kwamtsogolo
Pali cholinga chakukhalapo kwa munthu aliyense padziko lapansi. Malo ambiri awonongedwa paguwa la machimo azakugonana. Rubeni adataya udindo wake monga mwana woyamba chifukwa adachita zachiwerewere ndi mkazi wa abambo ake. Yosefe sakanakhala ndi moyo wabwino ngati akanakhala ndi mkazi wa ambuye. Genesis 39:12 kuti anamgwira chovala chake, nati, Ugone nane. Koma iye anasiya malaya ake m'manja mwake, ndi kuthawa ndi kutuluka panja. Lemba linanena kuti Yosefe adathawa.

Momwe Mungapewere Dama


Pemphani Mulungu Kuti Akuthandizeni
Njira imodzi yabwino kwambiri yogonjetsera mzimu wachigololo ndi kudzera mothandizidwa ndi Mulungu. Chisomo chothana ndikumverera kapena kuyesedwa kwa uhule adzamasulidwa ndipo malo okhawo omwe munthu angapeze chisomo kudzera mu thandizo la Mulungu.

Pemphani Mulungu kuti akuthandizeni, uzani mzimu woyera wa Mulungu kuti akuthandizeni kuthana ndi mayesero a chiwerewere. Nthawi zonse pamakhala mkangano pakati pa thupi ndi mzimu. Mzimu umakhala wofunitsitsa nthawi zonse koma thupi ndi lofooka. Izi zikufotokozera chifukwa chake munthu ayenera kufunafuna thandizo la Mulungu nthawi zonse.

Momwe Mtumwi Paulo analirira kwa Mulungu kuti amuthandize. Aroma 7: 15 Pakuti chimene ndichita ndimalola; pakuti chimene ndifuna, kuti achite ine ayi; koma chimene ndidana nacho, ndichita I. Lirani kwa Mulungu ndipo adzakuthandizani.

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Khalani Olanga

Dzenje lalikulu lauchimo lomwe timagweramo limadza chifukwa chodzilanga. Munthu yemwe samadziwa zomwe amayimira adzagwa pafupifupi chilichonse. Joseph adadziwa kuti anali ndani ndichifukwa chake sakanatha kulephera paguwa lachiwerewere. Anali wodzilamulira kwambiri komanso wotsimikiza mtima kuti sadzachita tchimo lililonse lachiwerewere.
Kufikira pomwe munthu walanga mwadala zina mwazinthu zina, amatha kugwidwa nthawi ina iliyonse.

Sec gwirizanitsani peoole awiri. Ndicho chifukwa chake Baibulo limanena 1 AKORINTO 6:16 Kapena simudziwa kuti iye wophatikidwa ndi mkazi wachiwerewere ali thupi limodzi ndi iye? Pakuti "awiriwo," akutero, "adzakhala thupi limodzi." khalani odziletsa kuti musayanjane ndi hule.

Kwatiwa

Ukwati ndi wolemekezeka. Bedi liyenera kukhala loyipitsidwa. Mulole amene ali pa msinkhu wokwatira kapena kukwatiwa kuti akwatire m'malo mochita chiwerewere. Mutakwanitsa msinkhu wokwatira kapena kukwatiwa, musalole kuti chiyeso cha dama chikukakamizeni kuchita tchimo. M'malo mochita zachiwerewere, ndibwino kuti mukhale okhazikika m'banja.

Ukwati ndikubwera pamodzi kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi kuti akhale mwamuna ndi mkazi okwatirana. Mathew 19: 5 nati, Chifukwa chake mwamuna adzasiya atate wake ndi amake nadzakangamira mkazi wake, ndipo awiriwo adzakhala thupi limodzi?


Kuopa Mulungu
Lemba likuti kuopa chiyambi cha nzeru. Kupewa dama sikuli mwa mphamvu. Wina amafunikira nzeru za atate kuti athe kuzindikira mayeserowo ndikuthawa. Ndipo nzeru za Ambuye zimakhazikika mukumuopa. Tikaopa Ambuye, timamvera malamulo ake onse ngati zili zotheka kwa ife kutero kapena ayi. Lemba linatipangitsa kuzindikira kuti limodzi mwa malamulo omwe Mulungu anatipatsa ndi kupewa dama. Izi ndichifukwa choti Mulungu akufuna kuti amange mtundu wa anthu oyera.

Komabe, pomwe kuopa Ambuye kulibe, kumakhala kovuta kuti tisachite chigololo. Tiyenera kuopa Ambuye monga momwe timaonera, tiyenera kumuopa monga momwe aliri kumbuyo kwathu. Bukhu la Masalmo 119: 11 amati mawu anu ndawasunga mumtima mwanga, kuti ndingakuchimwireni. Sungani mawu a Yehova mumtima mwanu kuti musamuchimwire.

 

 

 

 

 


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